Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Expect-at-ions


'Expectation' is probably the single most dangerous feeling a human can perceive. It's like this pill which kills you slowly from inside, eats into your happiness, lifestyle and then life! Yes, it is that dangerous!
As soon as you interact with any external stimuli from an individual or a non living thing, you fall unknowingly or knowingly into the cobwebs of expectations. Interestingly, each one expectation leads to another. Its an unending stairway which one keeps climbing forever.
Expectations can be from oneself or others, either ways these are the most important cause for any prevalent disharmonious situations/relationships. It's a simple phenomena you see...First, you expect, then as your initial expectations are fulfilled time and again, your expectations rise sometimes slowly, sometimes really quickly..This is the "profitable" phase of life.
Then there comes a "point of dissatisfaction" when you start to realise than most of your expectations are not being fulfilled, this should ideally be a "point of inflection" for assessing the situation again to look for potential reasons for the question "why my expectations from myself and others are not being fulfilled?"
But all of us in general circumstances, never look within for answers, instead we blame anything and everything under the sun.
Then comes the "point of no return", wherein we start to expect and demand so much out of our ownselves and others, that eating our own ego and going below our expectation levels becomes a difficult task..Hence unhappiness follows, till perspectives change!
Moral of the story:
"Expectations reduce joy, so reduce expectations to experience joy"

P.S. The sketch is made by me :)

5 comments:

  1. i agree wid u rads and well written but sumtimes expectations need to be a part of u coz otherwise u mite just not find a way to understand sumone n allow urself to be understood ....

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  2. First ...the sketch is beautiful...new form of art .
    secondly , what you wrote is so true ...expectations are like the waves in the ocean . you could get carried into them ... or you could choose to sit on the shores of life in observation...a drishta - unengaged .
    waves will not stop coming back and forth but riding on the waves (read-managing expectations from one's ownself, from others
    and in others )is the only way out . Learn sailing and you enjoy the game . happy sailing :) Proud of you !

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  3. Expectations are a sin...it kills the human within us...the child within us...the child who only knows expression...who only knows freedom...keeping a target for oneself is something else but "expecting" you to fulfil it at any cost is murder...
    Thought provoking...but true...harsh...but reality.....
    It needs guts to detach yourself from this whirlpool....But the sooner you are able to..the closer you get to your truths........

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  4. sketch is good. Thought about expectation is true that can make your life hell within seconds and control on expectation is an art of living. this thought process is a sign of growth keep it up and god blees

    mom

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  5. idk how i got here.. the sketch is cool man.. reminds me of the ALBUM COVER of "Division Bell" by Pink Floyd..... \m/

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